Thursday, March 17, 2011

Just Do Something

Most people with young children and babies will agree that it is easy to let the house get out of control!  I find that it can be spotlessly clean one day (scrubbed floors, dusted sils, toys all away, clean benches) and within 24 hours or so, can be back to complete chaos (sticky spills on the floor, rugs covered in dirt, toys everywhere including the bathroom, washing all over the house).

I am the type of person who gets both panicky and miserable when the house is chaotic.  I am not a neat person by nature, but I get anxious if things get beyond a mild state of disorder.  I find it overwhelming to look at a room, covered in stuff - where do I start?!  Will it ever get tidy?!

So I have a policy of 'Just Do Something'.  It is SO hard to find a block of time to really get stuck into cleaning, so instead, I just chip away at it all day.  Every time I open the fridge, I try and throw out five things.  When I was making lunch, I threw out an expired yoghurt, a near-empty tub of ricotta, some medicine, half a limp cucumber and a forgotten lamb chop.

Every time I walk from the living room to the bedroom, I take a few things with me - some clean washing, a book, a pair of shoes.  When I walk into the bathroom, I change the towels or the water in a vase.

It never seems like I'm actually doing much - but these tiny things, combined with a single "burst" (I often race around for ten minutes in the afternoon and do a speed-clean, including a vacuum), mean that things really do stay under control.

So when it all seems too much - I suggest you Just Do Something!

PS - I have to share a bit of hilarity.  Look at Tabitha's passport photo.  Doesn't it look like a baby mugshot?  She has her Very Serious Face on:


Tuesday, March 15, 2011

The Meal Rotation

Are you a regular meals person?  Do you serve the same thing each Wednesday, and do you find comfort and rhythym in a predictable routine?  Or do you have a looser rotation - the same large handful of meals, appearing regularly but in no particular order?

I have been torn in the past - I love the idea of a structured rotation (easy to plan ahead, shop ahead, you can look forward to a specific meal) but since I love to cook, and like to cook a real mish-mash of dishes (from oyako don to paella to lacquered duck to bolognaise), I quickly worked out that I could never commit to a weekly rotation. Choose just seven dishes?  Impossible!

For a while, I tried a monthly meal-plan.  I know, it seems crazy to me now too!  Each month I would sit down and plan every meal for the following month - I'd need to schedule any nights out (such as a planned dinner with friends) and would try and schedule meals so that leftover ingredients would be used up (for example, risotto on one night, then a couple of nights later, another meal requiring a little chicken stock).

It sure was fun to plan (for a weirdo list-nerd like me), but it proved unsustainable.  Inevitably, plans would change, and we'd go out for dinner on a night when I'd planned to cook something specific.  Ingredients went to waste, favourite meals were missed for the month, and there was no room for whims - "gee whiz, I really feel like a massive plate of chili con carne and cornbread tonight!" sort of whims.

So now, I am back to drifting.  I do have an extended list of meals I like to cook, which I keep on my iPhone when I need some inspiration, and there are certainly dishes which we eat more often than others, but I prefer the freedom of being able to decide what to cook on the day, or to wander around the market and buy whatever looks particularly good at the fishmonger, poultry man or butcher.

I love hearing about what other people eat!  I like peeking at other people's menu plans, shopping list, shopping trolleys, and I always ask my friends what they are having for dinner when I talk to them during the day.

So in the interest of sharing, here is the list of foods which appear on our dinner table - regularly or just occasionally.  Tabitha can easily eat all of the below, with the exception of soups.  When we have soup, I dip fingers of toast into the soup, and she eats it that way.

Poultry
  • Green curry
  • Paprika chicken and nokedli
  • Coq au vin
  • Chicken and mushroom pie
  • Teriyaki chicken
  • Oyakodon
  • Udon noodles with sesame poached chicken and bok choi
  • Chicken Kiev
  • Lemon chicken
  • Chicken schnitzel and vegetables with Israeli couscous
  • Chicken Provincal
  • Roast chicken
  • Southern-style chicken and dumplings
  • Duck breasts with orange / soy / ginger glaze
  • Congee
  • Chicken risotto
  • Pot roast chicken
  • Yakitori
  • Hainanese chicken rice
  • Soy sauce poached chicken
  • Chicken satay
  • Fajitas
  • Chicken and corriander quesadillas
  • Chicken and cashew stir fry
  • Chicken rice
  • Pan-fried chicken with thyme, cream and mustard sauce
  • Chicken marylands with spiced skin, potatoes and lemon
  
Seafood
  • Teriyaki salmon
  • Salt and pepper grilled fish
  • Tuna and zucchini pasta
  • Salmon kedgeree
  • Tuna mornay
  • Garlic prawns
  • Spaghetti marinara
  • Salmon Patties
  • Paella
  • Hot smoked salmon pasta
  
Meat
  •  Roast pork / beef / lamb
  • Baked ham
  • Lasagna
  • Bolognaise
  • Chilli con carne
  • Pork chops with apple cider
  • Osso bucco
  • Lamb shanks
  • Sausages with mash and onion gravy
  • Meatloaf
  • Beef burgundy
  • Beef and vegetable stew
  • BBQ pork ribs
  • BBQ steak with salad or vegetables
  • Shepherd’s Pie
  • Homemade rissoles with grated vegetables
  • BBQ Pork Fillet
  • Char Sui Pork
  • Beef stroganoff

Vegetarian, Pasta and Vegetable-Based
  • Pita pizzas with roast veggies
  • Agedashi tofu
  • Spinach quiche
  • Potato salad
  • Roast vegetable frittata
  • Carbonara
  • Pesto
  • Polenta corn fritters
  • Vegetable lasagna
  • Bubble and squeak
  • Baked potatoes

Soups
  • Roast pumpkin
  • Lentil
  • Dad’s Healthy Soup (veggie / bean / bacon)
  • Chicken and matzo ball
  • Winter chicken soup
  • Pea and ham soup

If I don't feel like cooking, we get take-away, generally a few times a month.  We are fortunate to have lots of great takeaway options in our area, including some healthy choices.  Our favourites are:
  • Japanese from Ocha2Go
  • Thai from Sukhumvit
  • High Tech Burrito (amazing healthy burritos full of Spanish rice, beans, salad etc.)
  • Charcoal chicken (our local uses free range chicken)
  • Hainanese Chicken Rice from Hawker's Cafe
  • Baked potatoes from Spudbar
  • Indian from Bombay Beat or Tandoori Den
  • Chinese from Choi's or Chun's
  • Indonesian from Kedai Nasi Uduk
  • Pizza from Mojo's Weird Pizza

Monday, March 14, 2011

Granny Boyd's Biscuits

We had a friend over this evening.  I made chicken marylands using a recipe from Faux Fuchsia's blog (baked marylands, the skin rubbed with oil, salt, pepper, paprika, chilli flakes, cumin, in a baking dish with cut up potato, lemon wedges and garlic cloves, with some stock in the bottom).  It was excellent, and will certainly become part of 'The Rotation' of regular dinner meals in our house.

I like cooking with thighs, marylands and drumsticks because they are incredibly economical.  I love darker meat - it is more tender and flavoursome - and it is so much cheaper than breasts.  A free-range maryland is generally around $3.50.  For the same reason I use a lot of blade and chuck steak.  Then I have more monies to spend on things like high quality cocoa powder and organic garlic!

After dinner, my friend and The Daddy inquired about dessert...  I hadn't prepared anything, so I decided to quickly bake a batch of biscuits to eat, warm, with ice cream.  The simplest biscuit recipe I know is from Nigella Lawson's brilliant How To Be A Domestic Goddess book.  The biscuits are smokey, short in texture, and although they feel solid, they crumble and melt away to nothingness in your mouth.  They are the perfect biscuit for eating with a glass of cold milk.

Granny Boyd's Biscuits

Sift together 300g self-raising flour with 30g cocoa.

Cream together 250g soft unsalted butter with 125g caster sugar (I use vanilla caster sugar, because it's what I keep in the house).  Cream until light and fluffy.

Work in the dry ingredients - "It might look like it needs liquid, but keep working the ingredients in and it will form a dough."

Roll the mixture into walnut-sized balls, and space apart on a baking tray lined with baking paper (the cookies will spread a little).  Lightly press each ball down with a fork.

Bake at 170 degrees for 5 minutes, then turn the heat down to 150 degrees and bake for a further 10 - 15 minutes - "It's hard to tell by looking when the biscuits are ready since the dough starts so dark, but they should feel firm on the top, although not hard."

Remove the cookies to a cooling rack - they will harden as they cool.


Pain and blogging

Yeowch!  I've been knitting like mad, working on two gifts, and my right hand is really sore.  While I was pregnant, I was working on a few things for the baby (blankets and a jacket), and in the last month or so of the pregnancy I developed dreadful carpel tunnel syndrome, and couldn't finish everything.  Thankfully the nice women at the wool shop I go to offered to finish sewing up my work, which I am very grateful for!

Here is one of the blankets I crocheted for the baby, pale green and cream:

However the lesson is - if you're pregnant and knitting or crocheting, please allow lots of time to finish, because carpel tunnel and bad swelling is common at the end of pregnancies.

I wanted to share some links to a few of my current favourite blogs:
Faux Fuchsia - an incredibly glamorous lady, whose style I envy, and whose gardening, DIY and cooking skills I am frequently inspired by.  FF is expecting a baby Any Day Now, and no doubt her baby will be gorgeous like her.

Fat Mum Slim - a lovely, hilarious and cheerful mother who takes beautiful photographs.  Also lots of great recipes, and her daughter is a sweet little gem.

PepperSaltSugarSpice - a gorgeous couple, both foodies, one trained as a chef, who explore regional food destinations, post beautiful photos of things they have cooked, and also post from overseas destinations with enticing meals they have enjoyed.  A really nicely written blog!

Sunday, March 13, 2011

Paprika Chicken

When we have fresh sesame bagels from Aviv in the house, all is right in my little world.  They are such a superior bagel - chewy, sweet and dense.  They must really be eaten fresh on the day they are made, or else toasted the next day.  Beyond that, they get stale.  I like mine with loads of full fat cream cheese and a layer of smoked salmon.



It also makes me happy to have fresh flowers in the house - no matter how clean the house is, it never feels truly finished unless there are a few vases of flowers.  I like 'fluffy' white and pastel flowers such as peonies, lissianthus, ranunculus, sweet peas, oversized chrysanthemums, hydrangeas, gardenias and David Austin roses.  In the bathroom, I keep vases of freesias or stephanotis - they are clean and crisp and have perfume the bathroom with a lovely fresh fragrance.




We had my family over for dinner today - I made Hungarian paprika chicken with nokedli, and a spiced warm apple cake for dessert.

Serious cooking required serious equipment.  Do you think that my current KitchenAid situation is overkill?



I am a huge supporter of mis en plas.  Starting to cook anything even vaguely complex is always best when you begin by preparing all of the ingredients, measured, sliced, ready to go.  It helps keep the kitchen clean while you go too - I prepare everything, clean up, then begin cooking.

Here is my mis en plas for paprika chicken (minus the chicken, which remains in the fridge).  You can see 3 cups of sliced white onions, 2 1/4 cups of strong chicken stock, 2 bay leaves, 3 tablespoons of plain four, 3 cloves finely sliced garlic, 1/2 cup of sweet paprika (best quality you can find), 60g butter.  In the fridge, I had 10 chicken thighs (skinless) and 1.5 cups of creme fraiche (you could also use sour cream).



Here is the mis en plas for the nokedli - 3 eggs, 1 cup of milk (in the fridge), 420g plain flour, 1/2 teaspoon of salt, 1/2 teaspoon of freshly grated nutmeg (dry ingredients mixed together).


To make the paprika chicken, you need to brown the chicken thighs in some olive oil in a large frypan.  Do this in batches of 3 or 4 thighs.  As each batch is nicely browned (a few minutes each side), set them aside in a large bowl.


When all the chicken is browned and set aside, add the butter to the fat in the pan, and melt.  Over medium-high heat, add the sliced onions, and cook, stirring, until the onions are well softened and lightly coloured (around 10 minutes).  At this point, sprinkle the paprika and the flour over the onions, and cook, stirring continuously, for a minute - it will look like this:


Add the bay leaves:


Add the chicken stock and garlic.  Bring the mixture to the boil, stirring continuously.  At this point, I transfer the mixture to a large enamel cast iron pot (26cm Le Creuset).

Add the chicken and its juices to the mixture and cook over low heat (so that the mixture is barely bubbling), stirring occasionally, until the thighs are cooked and the meat is tender and comes apart when poked firmly with a wooden spoon (20 or so minutes, I'd say).



Remove the chicken pieces to a clean bowl, and discard the bay leaves.


Leave the sauce for a few minutes to settle, then use a large flat spoon to skim most of the fat off the surface - the fat will appear as a dark red oil.  Discard the fat.

Boil the sauce over high heat, stirring occasionally to stop it sticking, until very thick - almost like porridge.  Remove from heat, and add the creme fraiche, stirring through until combined.  Return the sauce to high heat, boil until thickened, then add chicken to the pot and heat thoroughly.


To make the nokedi, add the beaten eggs and milk to the dry ingredients, and stir GENTLY (too much stirring will make tough nokedli).  You will have a runny yet elastic dough - a little thicker than thick pancake batter.  It should fall from a wooden spoon, but not be runny.  You can add extra milk, a tablespoon at a time, if you need more liquid.  Leave to rest for 15 minutes.

You then need to drop tiny pieces of the nokedli into a large pot of boiling water.  I use a special nokedli maker (also called a spaetzle press), however you can use a large-holed colander and push the mixture through with a wooden spoon.

The little nokedli are cooked when they float to the surface (a few minutes).  You are best to do this in a few batches - scoop out the cooked pieces with a large slotted spoon, and sit them all in a colander until they are all cooked.  Then, toss them through with a little butter and salt.


Tabitha loved the paprika chicken - I had worried that the flavour might be a little strong for her, but she adored it, grasping a piece in each fist and cramming lots into her mouth, making 'mmmmm' noises.  She also ate some green beans (which I served with the dinner).  My little sister (9) also loved the paprika chicken, so I would say that the dish is very child-friendly.

In fact, the first times I enjoyed paprika chicken and nokedli were when I was very small - toddler and primary school aged - at the house of family friends of ours, who were Hungarian.


Look at her, all shiny - she is covered in sauce from the chicken!


After dinner, I made a nice warm apple cake with a cinnamon and demerara sugar topping, which we ate with ice cream.  It's handy having two mixers for big cooking days like today - however the green one belongs to my friend, and sadly has to go back to its home soon!


This was several hours ago, and I am still so full that I feel queasy thinking about eating breakfast tomorrow.

Swimming Lessons

Because I have had a bad cold, I didn't want to get in the pool with Tabitha at her swimming lesson - no point adding my germs to the Germ Soup that is a local pool!

So my best friend Amy came to the rescue, and took Tabitha swimming for her lesson.


During the lesson, the babies are continually helped to swim to the edge, and assisted to pull themselves out, crawling clear of the water.  It is hoped that they will eventually learn that, if they fall into water, they should swim to the edge and climb out, or at least cling to the edge.


Tabby loves her swimming lessons - she puts her head under the water for a few seconds, and although she always seems most surprised by this, she remains cheerful for the lesson!


We went to Hays Paddock for Mothers' Group - it is a massive adventure playground, designed for all children including those with disabilities.  It is well worth checking out, even with older children, as the equiptment is really challenging.

While we were there, a strange looking pigeon kept harassing us.  It had a fancy feather arrangement around its neck, like an Elizabethan neck-ruff - so elegant.  I suspect it was a domestically bred pigeon which had escaped, since it was SO tame!  It ate (stole!) bread out of our hands and kept climbing ONTO the babies as they crawled around.  Some of the babies were terrified of it (which I must admit was cute to watch) but Tabitha kept trying to grab it and bite it!  One mother picked it up and carried it all the way to the other end of the park, but it just walked back, following her, and wouldn't leave us alone.  Strange!

NB: I realised I should point out that feeding bread to birds isn't a great idea, even though lots of us used to do it as kids, I think - the yeast isn't good for them.  Birds are better foraging for their own seeds and worms, and certainly not stealing chocolate biscuits as I saw the swans at the Botanic gardens do once, eek!!!


I used some of the passionfruit from our backyard vine to make a passionfruit slice, which I took along to mothers' group.

Here are some of our passionfruit:


Here is my recipe:

Line a slice pan (18cm x 27cm) with baking paper, coming up the sides a little (you can use this to lift the slice out when it's done).  Preheat the oven to 180 degrees.

Combine 80g icing sugar, 165g self raising flour, 95g dessicated coconut and 125g melted butter in a bowl, stirring until it comes together.

Press evenly into the prepared slice pan, and bake for around 12 or so minutes, or until lightly browned and risen.  Leave aside to cool a little while you make the topping.

Take about 6 passionfruit (this really depends on the size - sorry, I can't be too specific!), and scoop the pulp into a strainer over a bowl.  You need to collect about 2 tablespoons (40ml) of the juice without seeds.

 To the 2 tablespoons of passionfruit juice, add 50ml of passionfruit pulp (seeds and juice from while passionfruits - about 4, depending on size).  You will have a total of 90ml of passionfruit.

Tip a tin of condensed milk (395g) into a bowl.  Add 115ml lemon juice, and the 90ml of passionfruit.  Stir together, the mixture will thicken slightly.  Pour this over the base, and bake for 10 minutes.

Put the slice in the fridge.  When cool, you can remove it and cut it into 4cm squares.  Store in the fridge in an airtight container.  This slice made about 24 pieces, which lasted less than 24 hours!


Thursday, March 10, 2011

Banana French Toast

I have discovered the perfect breakfast for Tabitha.  I like her to have something nutritious for breakfast, being the First Meal of the Day and all that - ideally, I like her to have some carbs, protein, good fats and fruit (she gets her dairy from Mumma Dairy Cow!).

Well, I have invented a wonderful 'all-in-one' breakfast.  It occurred to me a while ago that French toast fingers would be good for her - just bread and eggs (with a dash of milk), and easier for her to eat than either plain toast OR plain eggs (French Toast is much sturdier and easier to hold and nibble than regular toast).

So for the last couple of weeks, most mornings The Daddy or I have made her some French toast, cut into fingers.  I fry the toast in extra virgin olive oil, so there is some good fats.  So far, there is carbs, protein and good fats.  Now, what about the fruit??

Here comes the brilliance - I tried mashing up half a very ripe banana with a fork, until it was basically a puree.  I then mixed the banana mush with the egg/milk mixture, and dipped the bread into it - as I put it in the hot pan, I scooped a little more of the eggy banana on the top, and when I flipped the toast, I added more eggy banana again, repeating the process and turning it a couple of times.

The result is a very thick, egg-and-banana-laden piece of French toast.  I then cut it into fingers, and let them cool for a bit.  WOW it tastes great!  I don't think I can go back to regular French toast!  I have mine with a dash of maple syrup, but Tabitha has hers plain or with a sprinkle of cinnamon, and loves it.

Now, perhaps someone has already invented this?  Never mind, I am laying claim, as I came up with it on my own.  I plan to try the same technique with stewed apple, blueberries and other fruits.

Monday, March 7, 2011

Lush and Scaley

Went out for a coffee and shopping this morning with a friend (and her beautiful, cheerful and stylishly dressed baby!) at Chadstone, and managed to run a whooole lot of 'to do' errands from my list as well.  Productive day.

Managed to run out of most of my skincare all at once, which meant a stop in to LUSH.  I have used bits and pieces from Lush in the past, and generally liked their stuff, however when I was pregnant, my skin went kinda crazy (dry, sensitive and breakouts), and Lush was really my savior!  I tried loads of products, and am now pretty loyal to my Lush picks.

Below, clockwise from top left, is Angels on Bare Skin cleanser, Ambrosia shaving cream, Eau Roma Water, a couple of free samples (Lovely Jubblies breast cream and Miranda soap), Ultrabland cleanser, Oatifix mask and Paradise Regained moisturiser.

NOTE - sorry, below links are to the US and UK sites, since the AU site is down.
  • Angels on Bare Skin is a gentle, moisturising and nourishing exfoliating cleanser.  It's Lush's biggest selling cleanser worldwide, and is so simple - just ground almonds, clay, lavender oil, rose, chamomile and Tagetes oils, fresh lavender flowers, and some glycerin.
  • Ambrosia is TD's shaving cream - really gentle and soothing.
  • I buy the Eau Roma spray, which is just lavender water and rose waters, because it is nice and cheap.  I used to use Jurlique rosewater spray, but it was more than double the price
  • Ultrabland is a really hardcore cleanser!  It's a thick, waxy mixture of almond oil, rosewater, beeswax, honey and a few plant extracts.  It's sort of a hassle to use (you have to massage it in for a minute or so, then steam it off with a hot wet cloth) but it is totally worth it, especially if your skin is freaking out.  I use it about every second day (I use Angels every morning, and either Ultrabland or plain Cetaphil in the evenings).  Ultrabland is excellent at removing even heavy makeup.
  • I used to adore the Brazened Honey mask, but it's way too intense for my now-sensitive skin.  I love the Oatifix mask now - it softens, moisturises, calms and deep-cleanses, and just contains oatmeal, fresh organic bananas, glycerin, ground almonds, illipe butter, clay, vanilla and some other oils and natural ingredients.  You have to keep it in the fridge, and a pot only lasts a few weeks, but it is a brilliant mask and smells delicious to apply!
  • I've mentioned Paradise Regained, my moisturiser, before.  It's firming and full of natural fruit enzymes, which keep skin smooth and bright - it's supposed to be an anti-ageing moisturiser, but it works perfectly on my skin, keeping things soft and clear.  As well as pineapple enzymes, it contains fresh green grapes, green tea, organic cocoa butter, almond oil, and quite a few natural oils and infusions.
I find you get great 'bang for your buck' at Lush, because the products are exceptionally good, packed full of organic and natural high quality active ingredients, with no 'fillers' and gums, mineral oils etc.  Pretty much NO money goes into their packaging or advertising, so you are really paying for the high quality products.  Much more eco-friendly packaging, too, than most brands, and every time you return 5 little black tubs, you get a free face mask!


I was folding and hanging Tabitha's washing this afternoon when I noticed it is all very coordinated.  I never thought much about how her clothes go together, but now I realise that 90 per cent of what I buy all matches with each other.  I stick to navy, blue, and pale and dark pinks.  This is partially because these are the colours that suit her (reds, greens and brighter colours wash her out), but it is also very handy to stick to one colour palette, as it means that everything can go with each other, in a very 'This goes with that' Sussan sort of way!

I thoroughly recommend this approach to baby clothes - it means that dressing her is a breeze, since you can generally grab any few items from her wardrobe (pants, top and coat, for example) and they will go together well.  It helps to buy most of her clothes from just a couple of shops, too, since each store tends to stick to one or two main colour palettes.  I buy almost all of Tabitha's 'everyday' clothes at Country Road and Seed.  The quality is excellent, too - I have never had a button come off, or anything pill, fade or stretch.




Now that Tabby is crawling, dresses aren't so practical (since her knees get caught on the dress), and she goes through lots more pants, since the knees get quite filthy!  So her current wardrobe (which should do her through Autumn and Winter) consists of:
  • 3 pairs of patterned baggy/harem type pants
  • 5 pairs of leggings (navy, pale pink, pale pink stripes, silver/grey marle and navy stripes)
  • 5 long-sleeve tops (a couple of Henley-style, and some pretty long-sleeve t-shirts with detailing)
  • 3 cardigans (white with a simple bow on the pocket, pink with a white stripe around the middle, with sleeves that can button up, and another pale pink plain one)
  • 2 hand knitted jackets
  • 1 lovely cashmere pale pink cable knit poncho (gift)
  • 1 pale pink, soft and padded reversible woolen button-up jacket with a hood (very warm and snuggly)
  • A pale pink wool beanie with ear-flaps
  • A pink and cream stripe wool beanie
  • A couple of dresses with tights for any special occasions
  • About 6 pairs of socks
  • About 6 singlets
  • Finally, I am going to go and buy a couple of pairs of soft-soled shoes, now that she is 'walking' around the furniture, holding on, and likes to do this outside.  Bare feet are fine in summer, but she needs some shoes for winter.  I will get them from Bobux, who do excellent children's shoes.
I would say that's a fairly thorough wardrobe, without being over-the-top.  As the weather gets colder, I might add a woolen jumper or two, and I will simply layer her long-sleeve tops with singlets underneath.

In other news - our beautiful Diamond Python, Marilyn, is growing - she is still quite tiny, but is a voracious eater and is lovely to handle.





Sunday, March 6, 2011

Slow Weekend

Given Tabitha's illness over the last week, we had a nice quiet weekend.  Visits on Friday evening from Godmother Sophie and my friend Amy.  A few visitors on Saturday (my godfather Tim, my godson/Tabitha's godfather Noah, my father) then in the afternoon we went for a nice long walk with Amy, with Tabitha wrapped high on my back, giggling the whole way.

Today, Sunday, we went for brunch at Snow Pony with my parents, sister, grandfather and aunt.  A lazy afternoon in the back garden, swinging on the hammock, watching Tabby race around, crawling madly after the cats with a broccoli florette in one fist, and some cold roast pork in the other fist, stopping every now and then to munch.  She also ate a whole lot of crunchy dried leaves.

This evening, made an early dinner - roast chicken, roast potatoes (which I do in duck fat and lemon juice), roast garlic, and gravy, which is dead easy to make - if you normally bother with measuring out Gravox powder, try one day to make ordinary gravy, which is easier, I think, and tastes better.  Strain a little fat off the juices in the roasting tray, sprinkle a couple of tablespoons of plain flour over the juices, stir well with a wooden spoon to loosen all the roasted-on bits, add about a half cup of water, then stir (in the roasting tin, if you have a heavy-bottomed one) over medium heat, stirring, until the gravy comes together and thickens.

I had run out of kitchen string, so my lovely free range chicken is all legs-akimbo!


Tabitha liked her dinner - a piece of chicken in one fist, and a 1/4 potato in the other:



Afterwards, I made some nice comforting rice pudding.  I think this is a nice finish to a roast, however I often make it for my lunch, and then eat the rest, cold or room temperature, digging it out of the dish, over the rest of the afternoon!  It makes the whole house smell brilliant - a rich, heavy fug of vanilla and nutmeg.



Rice pudding is just about the simplest dessert I know of:

Lightly grease a 4-cup shallow ovenproof dish (roughly 20cm x 30cm).

Wash 1/2 a cup of short or medium grain rice well under cold water, and drain well.

Combine, in the dish, the rice, 2 1/2 cups of full cream milk, 1/4 cup of caster sugar (I use vanilla-infused caster sugar, because I keep it in the house), 2 tablespoons of sultanas and 1 teaspoon of vanilla extract.  Mix lightly.

Dot the top with 2 teaspoons of butter, and sprinkle with freshly ground nutmeg (I don't have a fancy nutmeg grater - I just use a fine Microplane).

Bake in a 150 degree oven for 1.5 - 2 hours, or until most of the milk is absorbed and the rice is cooked.

Serve warm or cold with ice cream, cream, stewed fruit or jam.  Or eat cold from the dish with a fork!

The Daddy likes his with jam and cream:

This evening, the upstairs neighbours (who are expecting their baby Any Day Now) came knocking on our door - there was a baby possum in their pot-plant, they explained, and they came for our help (since we are known as 'the animal people').  I went up to look - in fact, it was just a young possum, not a baby, and I think had simply gotten 'lost'.  I gently scooped it into our large cane washing basket, with a towel, and then released it at the base of a tree near the back of the block.  It scurried up the tree and off into the dusk.  I must say, it was mighty cute, all soft fur and giant eyes.  Our younger cat is called Possum - because when he was a tiny kitten, he too was all soft brown fur and giant liquid-amber eyes.


Thursday, March 3, 2011

Sick baby

Tabitha has a nasty little cold - with a rattling chesty cough, poor little mite.

She is okay, sleeping fairly well (with long naps during the day), but she is all red-eyed and bleary and sad and coughing.

I tried to get a photo of her looking all sad and sick, but she continues in her quest to be the World's Happiest Baby and stubbornly refused to look poorly:


Despite photographic evidence to the contrary, she really is ill.  If I walk more than a few steps away from her she cries and cries - poor muffin must feel just rotten.

As a parent, you need to find the silver lining, or else it's easy to get down.  So instead of complaining about having a sick baby, here is my list of the not-so-bad parts of sickness:

  • Tabitha is extra-cuddly.  When I get her up from her nap, she just wraps around me for a cuddle.  When she's playing on the floor, she keeps crawling over to me for more long cuddles.  She is happy to rest her head on my shoulder and just have a hug for a while.  It's nice.
  • I have stayed at home this week, not going to our ordinary activities (Gymbaroo, swimming etc) because she needs to rest.  So we've actually had a really lovely quiet week at home, reading lots of stories, building block castles, and making up songs about cats!
  • We have pretty much been in our pyjamas all week!  Comfy little Bonds PJs for Tabby, Peter Alexander baggy pants for me.  Lots of cups of tea, watching some DVDs and knitting while she naps.  A nice quiet week to stay at home (and get lots of washing done!).  Here is Tabitha mooching around in her PJs.  I got 5 pairs of cute Bonds cotton PJs for $10 a pair!!  Amazing!


  • Finally, we have used this as motivation to have a super-healthy week.  Lots of fresh vegetables, fruit, and lots of baby pro-biotics for Tabitha (I take them too, and some does go through the breastmilk, but since she's ill I'm dosing her up).

Being a first-time mumma, I'm no expert on illness!!  But here is what works for us:

  • Our nifty Vicks Vaporiser.  I have mentioned these before - they are brilliant, make a huge difference to chest and nose congestion, and allow Tabby to sleep well at night and during the day.
  • Her chest cough was pretty bad this morning, so I sat in the bathroom with her (door closed) and put the shower on HOT and let it run into the bath (with a plug) until the whole room got steamy, and the bath was half full.  I then topped the bath up with a little cold water, to get normal bath temperature, and we both sat in the warm bath, in the VERY steamy room, for half an hour or so.  This helped to clear up her chest a little.
  • Lots and lots of babywearing!  As long as she is firmly attached to me, Tabitha is happy.  She seems to breathe better, too, being upright, and having her against me keeps her nice and warm.  This pretty piece of fabric has been our saviour for the past few days:


  • Tabitha has shown minimal interest in solid foods while sick, so she's been having lots of breastmilk around the clock - a good feed every couple of hours.  This is brilliant, because I know she is hydrated, getting a balanced diet (protein/fat/carbs/sugars etc) and lots of natural antibodies and vitamins.

Hopefully she starts to improve over the next couple of days...
 
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